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What to listen to when you can't sleep: a practical 2 a.m. guide

Wayne Zhao

Founder of Lull

If you are awake and scrolling for the perfect sleep sound, stop at one low-stakes choice: a boring story, familiar audiobook, guided relaxation, soft music, or quiet masking sound.

Core Insight

Choose bedtime audio based on what is keeping you awake, then make it less stimulating with low volume, a sleep timer, a locked screen, and autoplay turned off.

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Sleep Knowledge

Pick one in 30 seconds

Match the audio to what is keeping you awake

There is no universally best sleep sound. Choose one low-stakes option, keep it quiet, and stop searching.

Your mind is racing
A familiar, low-stakes story or calm spoken-word track
Your body feels tense
A guided body scan, slow breathing, or muscle relaxation track
Outside noise keeps interrupting
Earplugs first, or a quiet steady masking sound if needed
Voices keep you interested
Soft familiar music, a simple nature sound, or silence

Use a sleep timer, turn autoplay off, lock the screen, and keep the volume only loud enough to hear comfortably.

The short answer: if your mind is busy, start with quiet spoken audio that you do not care about finishing. A deliberately uneventful story, a familiar audiobook, or a calm podcast can occupy just enough attention without giving you another problem to solve.

If spoken words keep you alert, try a guided body scan, soft familiar music, or silence instead. If outside noise is the real problem, try reducing the noise first; a quiet masking sound is an option, but the evidence for leaving white or pink noise on all night is weaker than its popularity suggests.

There is no single sound that reliably makes everyone sleep. The useful question is not “What is the best sleep audio?” It is “What is least likely to keep me engaged tonight?”

What should you listen to when you can't sleep?

Here are six reasonable options, starting with the ones most useful for a mind that will not stop thinking.

1. An intentionally boring sleep story

Choose a story with a calm voice, little conflict, no cliffhanger, and no important details to remember. Descriptions of ordinary places, slow history, quiet travel, old crafts, or uneventful daily routines often work better than dramatic fiction.

The test is simple: Would you be disappointed to miss the ending? If the answer is yes, save it for daytime. Bedtime audio should be easy to abandon.

Stories may provide a neutral place for attention to rest, but this is a preference, not a proven medical effect. A 2026 randomized trial of 495 working adults compared app-based bedtime stories, sleep sounds, sleep-skills audio, and a digital control. After four weeks, none of the three audio groups produced a statistically significant improvement in sleep disturbance compared with the control. That does not mean a story cannot help you tonight. It means it should be presented as an optional comfort, not a treatment that is guaranteed to work.

2. A familiar audiobook

A book you already know removes two common sources of stimulation: uncertainty and the fear of losing your place. Pick a chapter you have heard before, lower the narration speed if the delivery feels energetic, and use a bookmark or sleep timer so you do not have to find your place tomorrow.

Avoid a new mystery, thriller, emotionally intense memoir, or anything you are actively trying to learn. If you start tracking the argument or waiting for the reveal, the book has become a daytime book.

Research specifically testing ordinary audiobooks as a sleep aid is sparse. In a small randomized trial, an audiobook was used as the comparison condition for bedtime music; the study found no clear objective sleep improvement from music and did not establish audiobooks as an insomnia treatment (Jespersen et al., 2019). Familiar audiobooks remain a practical choice because they are low stakes for many listeners, not because clinical trials have identified a special audiobook effect.

3. A calm podcast or dry lecture

Look for one steady speaker, a predictable format, no shouting, no loud advertisements, and a topic that is mildly interesting rather than urgent. Quiet history, gentle explanations, catalog-like descriptions, or a lecture you do not need to remember can be better than a show designed around surprise.

Download the episode before bed if possible. Ads, notifications, recommendation feeds, and the search itself can be more activating than the audio is calming. Turn autoplay off so one finished episode becomes silence rather than a new introduction competing for attention.

This recommendation is based more on fit and lived experience than direct clinical evidence. A systematic review of pre-sleep cognitive activity found that worry, planning, monitoring, and other cognitive arousal are associated with insomnia, but experiments that try to redirect pre-sleep thinking have produced beneficial, negligible, and sometimes detrimental results. Distraction is not automatically helpful; the content has to feel effortless to you.

4. Guided relaxation when your body feels tense

If your jaw is tight, breathing feels shallow, or your whole body seems to be bracing, choose a short body scan, diaphragmatic-breathing exercise, or progressive muscle relaxation track. You should be able to follow it without looking at the screen.

Relaxation and counter-arousal techniques are components of evidence-based insomnia care. The 2025 VA/DoD insomnia guideline includes diaphragmatic breathing, body scans, and grounding among the techniques used within CBT-I and brief behavioral treatment for insomnia. A recording can guide one of those exercises, but a standalone track is not equivalent to a complete CBT-I program.

If instructions make you monitor whether you are relaxing “correctly,” switch to something less directive. Bedtime is not a performance test.

5. Soft, familiar music

Choose music you already know, at a steady volume, without abrupt transitions. Instrumental music may be less engaging for some people, while familiar lyrics give other people a neutral focus. Personal preference matters more than finding a supposedly perfect tempo or frequency.

A 2022 Cochrane review concluded that music may improve subjective sleep quality in adults with insomnia, but the certainty of evidence ranged from moderate to low, and objective sleep outcomes were not well established. In other words, music can be a reasonable low-cost experiment, but “sleep music” is not a substitute for treating chronic insomnia.

6. A quiet steady sound—only if it solves a noise problem

White, pink, or brown noise can make an unpredictable environment sound more consistent. That may be useful when traffic, a neighbor, or household sounds keep interrupting you. If your room is already quiet, adding all-night noise may not help.

The evidence is mixed. A 2022 systematic review in the Journal of Clinical Sleep Medicine found no strong evidence supporting white or pink noise for sleep, despite positive findings in some small studies. More recently, a 2026 laboratory study of 25 healthy adults found that pink noise at 50 decibels reduced REM sleep, while earplugs protected sleep from aircraft noise more effectively. That was a small, short study in people who did not normally use noise for sleep, so it is not the final word. It is enough reason not to claim that pink noise is universally beneficial or to play it loudly all night by default.

If you use masking sound, keep it quiet and consider a timer. If environmental noise is the issue, earplugs or reducing the noise at its source may be the simpler first experiment.

What about ASMR?

ASMR may be calming if you already experience the characteristic tingling or relaxation response. A 2015 survey of self-selected ASMR users found that 82% used ASMR to help induce sleep. That figure describes why existing ASMR users listened; it does not show that ASMR works for 82% of people or that it treats insomnia.

If whispering, tapping, or close-microphone sounds relax you, they are a reasonable personal option. If they feel irritating or attention-grabbing, there is no reason to train yourself to like them.

My own boring-audio rule

I came to this after twenty years of severe chronic insomnia. I saw doctors repeatedly, spent a night in a clinical sleep lab, and was told that my sleep architecture was “mostly ok.” That result did not make the nights easier. I also followed the usual sleep-hygiene rules intensely—rigid schedules, daily exercise, getting out of bed when awake, and immediate morning sunlight—without solving the underlying problem.

What eventually helped me was surprisingly plain: dry informational videos on YouTube, with autoplay turned off. The subject gave my software-engineer mind somewhere harmless to go. The delivery was unexciting enough that I would lose the thread, forget what I had heard, and sometimes fall asleep when the video ended.

That experience is why I built Lull around intentionally uneventful spoken audio. It is my workaround, not proof that boring stories treat insomnia. The point is to make one calm option available without requiring another midnight search.

Try a free, intentionally uneventful story

Set up the audio without waking yourself further

Once you choose something, make the device less interesting:

  1. Choose one saved track. Do not keep comparing playlists in bed.
  2. Turn off autoplay. Let the audio end instead of starting a new hook.
  3. Set a 15- to 30-minute timer. Extend it another night only if the ending itself wakes you.
  4. Lower the volume. It should be just loud enough to follow without straining.
  5. Lock and face down the screen. Silence notifications and avoid watching the video.
  6. Use a speaker when practical. If you use headphones, avoid turning them up to overcome other noise.

The World Health Organization's safe-listening guidance recommends keeping personal-device volume below 60% of maximum and limiting prolonged exposure. For bedtime, lower is usually enough because the room is quiet.

What if nothing is working tonight?

Do not keep changing tracks every few minutes. That turns sleep into a search task and gives you repeated reasons to check the clock and screen.

If you notice yourself becoming frustrated or fully alert in bed, stimulus-control guidance generally recommends getting up and doing something quiet in dim light until sleepiness returns, then returning to bed. Avoid using the clock as a test. The purpose is to keep the bed associated with sleep rather than a long struggle.

If difficulty falling or staying asleep happens at least three nights a week for three months, causes distress, or impairs daytime functioning, audio is not the main intervention to rely on. NHLBI guidance and the 2025 VA/DoD guideline recommend cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia as first-line treatment for chronic insomnia. Seek medical guidance sooner for loud snoring or gasping, severe daytime sleepiness, unexpected sleep episodes, worsening depression, or safety concerns while driving or working.

The takeaway

When you cannot sleep, choose the least engaging option that fits the actual problem:

  • Racing thoughts: an intentionally boring story, familiar audiobook, or calm dry lecture.
  • Physical tension: a body scan, slow-breathing, or muscle-relaxation track.
  • A noisy environment: reduce the noise or try earplugs before assuming colored noise is better.
  • Words keep you awake: soft familiar music, a simple nature sound, or silence.
  • Too many choices: use one saved default, a short timer, low volume, and autoplay off.

Audio can make a difficult night feel less adversarial. It cannot guarantee sleep, and it is not a replacement for CBT-I or medical evaluation when insomnia persists.


This article is educational and is not a diagnosis or a substitute for medical care. Wayne Zhao writes from lived experience with chronic insomnia, not as a clinician.

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Lull provides calm, low-stimulation bedtime audio. It is not medical treatment.

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